Do you know that our brain has several vulnerabilities? Which are these vulnerabilities? Be aware when you notice them or use them. You will find 44 of them in this post.
- Ask if Died before or after 90 then ask age (more than if you ask before or after 30).
- Nod upwards to make someone think you are their friend.
- Watch middle of the forehead to make someone uncomfortable.
- Don’t use “could you” but “please do”.
- To make someone choose, propose 3 options, the one you want to is the last.
- To make someone answer your question don’t talk (silence).
- To make someone do something big: “start with this”.
- To avoid anxiety when you do new things: admit to the audience is the 1st time.
- If you want they say yes just nod your head.
- If you want people to be happy when they see you be happy when you see them.
- To make people want to have more say you have to go and see you later.
- Set meetings at the beginning or at the end of the day.
- Halo effect: find similarities with the other person (ex: fishing).
- Give a little gift when someone does what you want (chocolate).
- If someone interrupts you just keep talking (look in his eyes).
- Don’t ask for volunteers, ask for help.
- To wake up, put your hands up and say “wooo!!”.
- Compliment to avoid fighting.
- To get something ask it when he is busy (on the phone).
- When you lie don’t argument, look in the eyes and shut.
- To remember say something stupid when you do it.
- To better handle mistakes: “television was left on” don’t “you left…”.
- When you ask for help say “it’s ok if you can’t do it”.
- If someone starring at you stare his feet.
- Skip Yes/No question a propose options choices.
- Doubting about the abilities of someone will double their motivation.
- Shake with hot hands.
- Someone that will explain you will feel superior to you (so he will like you).
- Act disappointed when you want to have a better offer.
- Nod, smile and touch the arm of someone to make him more friendly (not too much).
- To trick your brain you are well rested say you slept well.
- Say “87% of people who live 2nd take the stairs instead of the elevator”.
- To make someone believe you say a figure of authorities you know told you.
- To get rid of a song in your head sing the end of the song.
- When people laughing each person will look toward who they believe the leader.
- People are less rude when they see themselves in a mirror.
- If you want to know if someone is staring you just yawn, it is contagious.
- Tack on an embarrassing detail to the end of your lie (spilled coffee when late).
- When you lose ask your opponent: “how are you doing so well?”
- Flattery will distract him.
- To win long term argument stay calm remain silent wait opponent gets angry and raise voice so you win.
- When you meet someone for the first time find something in common to have a better halo effect.
- Chewing gum will increase concentration short term.
- To make people friendly ask pen and give them back: trust will increase.
- To fit in a group, mimic gestures, words etc.
- False dilemmas: ask “Would you rather help me X or Y?” Instead of “Would you help me?”.
- Tell something personal about you, pause some second, the other person will tell you something personal.